Ever since I heard the news that Chris Brown had beaten Rihanna in Febuary 2009, I wished for justice to be made. Justice was made, Chris did some time in the slammer, but he and Rihanna were still dating. In these moments you start wondering who’s the one with the problem. Why would anyone still date the one that hit them? RiRi needed help! Oprah told her that if he hit her once, he would hit her again. Rihanna should have listened to Oprah and give Brown the boot right away.
Oprah knows what she’s talking about because as a child she was abused by her father and brother. She couldn’t have given them the boot because they were living under the same roof, but RiRi wasn’t forced to remain in the same house as Chris. Rihanna actually had a choice! Oprah didn’t. Still, Rihanna forgave Chris but after some time they eventually split. Seems like it wasn’t a match made in heaven after all and they went on separate ways. I don’t understand why she didn’t dump him after the actual beating? Ass holes like Chris Brown don’t deserve a second chance. Whoever hits a girl should have his arms cut off. How are you going to hit her now, jerk?
I’ve a had some people tell me that some women beat men too, but everyone knows that those cases are rare. Besides, most women are not as strong as the average man. If a woman even slaps a man, he would punch her. Unless he’s well mannered and knows that YOU NEVER HIT A GIRL! Nowadays, especially in my post-comunist country, men hit women like there’s no tomorrow and act like it’s a normal thing. It’s like something that makes the women feel like they’re in a marriage. That’s just stupid and domestic violence must be stopped! The world needs education in that direction.
Back to Rihanna now! After Chris Brown beat her, her music really started to suck! I believe his behaviour actually had something to do with this. Remember how everyone loved the beautiful cover girl in “Umbrella” and how we couldn’t get enough of that song? Now we have songs like “Rude boy” that is succesful but the lyrics are terrible. Not to mention RiRi’s hair! What the hell happened to that awesome black bob? She rocked that look! Blonde hair doesn’t suit her at all! Also, the immage of a wannabe slut also kills the innocent easy breazy cover girl we all knew and loved.
The fact that Chris Brown hit her makes me feel bad for her. But how can she get over the trauma by making songs about ass holes that might need Viagra?
Come here, rude boy, boy; can you get it up?
Come here rude boy, boy; is you big enough?
I’m just sayin’! Maybe this is the new method of getting over an ex that beat you. Was this song a dedication to Chris Brown or do you actually need another ass hole rude boy? Was he in need of some blue pill or did you want to test out another bully’s “loving skills”? Even from the first lyric this song is confusing. We have no idea who she’s singing about. Maybe further on in the song we’ll get an idea or something…
Boy, I want, want, want whatchu want, want, want
Give it to me, baby like boom, boom, boom
What I want, want, want is what you want, want, want
Now it seems that RiRi either wants sado-maso lovin’ or she actually wants to blow up. Or she wants more punches. Did that idiot traumatise her that bad in order for her to sing about bad guys and “boom boom boom” being given to her? Rihanna, it’s ok! Now you can sing about umbrellas again and you can forget everything about that crazy mofo of an ex-boyfriend. Please, don’t become addicted to bad guys!
So giddy-up; time to get it up: you say you a rude boy: show me what you got now
Seriously? You want a rude boy to show you what he’s got? You may not live to remember. Rude boys are known for punching the life out girls. You really want that to happen to you? Especially when you should be loved, not beaten to death in your bed! Trust me, you really don’t want to see what he’s got. A stronger hit, that’s what! And it may have your name on it! So run, RiRi, run! Run for your life!
Rihanna’s duet with Eminem for “Love the way you lie” also shows that RiRi didn’t recover from the abuse.
Just gonna stand there and watch me burn
Well that’s all right because I like the way it hurts
Again with the hurt and how she loves it! This is just not cool! The song is great, from an artistic angle, but she shouldn’t embrace all these negative emotions. Toxic relationships are not good for anyone and that’s what this song is about. People embrace the pain and start to love it. Maybe Rihanna’s subconscious still remembers what Chris Brown did and tries to transform the pain into love.
I feel sorry for her. She’s a nice a girl that deserves more and most of all, she deserves to move on and find a non-abusive guy that will love her unconditionally. Also, I wish she would go back to her Umbrella days. That was the rise of her career.
Good luck in love rehab, RiRi! And lay off the rude boys!